It’s hard to believe it’s been 44 years since my life changed in an instant. As I look back, I see a journey that has been filled with uncertainty, fear, but also immense hope and possibility. There was a time when the future felt like an overwhelming question mark—when I couldn’t imagine what the next moment, let alone the next year, would look like. In those early days, I was afraid. Afraid of what I had lost, of what I might never be able to do again. But I was also full of hope and determination, and those things became the fuel that powered my ability to move forward.
I’ve always been told that hardship doesn’t define us—it’s how we respond to it that shapes us. I’m not the same person I was 44 years ago. I’ve been able to embrace my adventurous side, work hard, stand up for myself and others, and keep pushing boundaries to make space for those that need it.
I have had great mentors, teachers, and found role models who have gone before me and led the way for inclusion and accessibility. I have been able to ask the question “what would it take?” when faced with barriers and discrimination and keep asking to push for meaningful change.
I’ve gained a kind of resilience that comes only from living through challenges, and with that, a deep sense of gratitude. I am thankful for the life I’ve led, for the lessons learned, and for the person I’ve become. Today, I’m not just surviving—I’m thriving. I have joy in my heart and a contentment with the life I’ve built.
I wouldn’t be where I am today without my incredible posse—those who have been by my side, those who have believed in me, even when I couldn’t see it in myself. They lift me up (literally and figuratively), pushing me when I’ve doubted myself, and reminding me of my worth even when I couldn’t see it. To those who have loved me and seen ME for who I truly am, I am forever thankful. You’ve cut me no slack, but in the best way possible, encouraging me to grow into the best version of myself.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the past 44 years, it’s that life is unpredictable, and no journey is the same. But what I do know is this: no matter the challenges we face, there is always the possibility for growth, and always a chance to create something beautiful, even from the hardest moments. I’m not sure what lies ahead but no matter what, Im going to continue to embrace life with gratitude, joy, and the unwavering belief that anything is possible.
Thank you to everyone who has been part of this journey. It’s been a wild ride, but I wouldn’t change a thing. Here’s to resilience, growth, and the joy of continuing to make space for all, to challenge ourselves and to evolve. 🙌✨
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